Beyond telling people who ask for roms to take a hike, the members of this forum have no reason, or obligation to "help out".. We also have no obligation to accept that help.
And besides that, you have a tendancy to TELL people what to do, how to post, the way the should answer someones question, etc.. It's best if you just leave moderating to the moderators - that is why we are here, and we are not understaffed.
It's as simple as that. There is no need to debate or explain further. Don't ruin your otherwise good/helpful forum membership.