Ok you useless lot here is the answer
http://windowshelp.microsoft.com/Windows/en-US/help/2af64e60-60aa-4d79-ab6c-3a5db5806cbe1033.mspx and that's it going now!!!
I'll know in about 5 min if it works or no unless I faint from excitment!!
EDIT 1 - ok attempt 2!! come on it'll work !!
EDIT 2 - ok had a couple of stabs at reading roms ( 8 I think ) 2 attempts at Fifa 95 and 6 at Super Hang On (SHO). 2 Fifa's were done in windows and I have a fifa.bin which is 4meg in size. The SHO were done in windows 2 at full speed, 1 at medium, 2 in dos at full, 1 at medium and all have came out 4 meg in size. Comparing the files as suggested in the trouble shooting shows no differences between any of them, even between the fifa.bin and the sho.bin so something must be wrong. Sadly even if the device isn't plugged in if the software is run it creates a .bin file with size 4 meg which makes me think all the files created are the same junk.
I'm in the middle of installing a hex editor on the old comp to compare files and thankfully I have some roms on there so I can compare it against them.
My only thought on it's reason for not working is that I had to substitute 2 of the chips for what I believed to be the same thing under different codes and maybe I got it wrong. All my soldering looks fine and I checked constantly that everything was in the right place.
Well it's taking ages to open the hex editors maybe cause the CD im using is 1000years old so that might not happen. I might try another cd to transfer the editors....
Any thoughts anyone??
EDIT 3 - Got the Hex Editor working and as I thought the files are just full of 00's