How do I get desmume to run games in multiplayer with a wireless connection?

I enjoy playing DS games on my PC (even though it's not a super good framerate, I have a bad PC) and I want to be able to use wireless communications to do stuff like playing games in local multiplayer, etc. But I can't and all the tutorials I find on YouTube are for wired connections. I did find one for wireless, but it suggests using virtual machine. But that would make my framerate even worse! So does anyone else have a suggestion?

DS emulators that I know of thus far do not do that. The old VBA ( game boy advanced emulator) does work but only for GBA games. Give it some time, it will happen.